Is My Problem Therapy-Appropriate?

I hear this question a lot. New clients will call and start off our conversation with, "I know you probably have more important clients with more critical issues, but I don't know where else to turn." It always amazes me how people don't believe their issue is important enough to seek help themselves.

Well, here is some reassurance. People cope differently in reaction to situations. Something that may stress one person out may easily roll off of your back. In turn, you may find yourself having difficulty dealing with a particular situation, but you see others sail through the stress with ease.

Regardless, if you're finding you're having difficulty dealing with a particular issue or relationship, and the inability to cope with the problem is impacting your ability to carry out your normal daily routine, then it's time to do something about it. You have a right to be happy within your life, whatever that means or looks like to you.

Reaching out for help is not a weakness, but in fact a strength. It's the strength of knowing your limitations and recognizing getting help will allow you to heal faster, rather than trying to work through the problem on your own, only to realize that you're sinking fast.

So, if you are doubting as to whether or not your issue is important enough for therapy, ask yourself this:

Am I succeeding at overcoming the problem myself?
What will it take for me to recognize I need help to get my life back in order?

Remember: Only strength allows you to take one step at a time.